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Approaching women is not that raunchy as you think. You just need confidence and should know to use the right words. Here are a few things you should know before approaching the female you just met and you are attracted to.

1. The very first most significant thing is to take it effortless. If you get all jittery and startled and think that if you don’t get this doll, it is going to be the end of your life, then you will never indeed get to know her. So be cool and don’t overstep your bounds. If you succeed, its fine and if not then stir on. Don’t care about the outcome so much that it will make you jumpy and you will spoil every chance that you ever had.

Two. Be certain. People display confidence (or lack of it) in a thousand petite ways; your stance, the way you talk, a lack of waiver in your voice, eye contact, figure position, placement of the arms, etc., etc. All of these are critical and create an impression. Your impression should always be one of confidence.

Three. Smile. This is the best part. Your smile can mean a lot. Smiles can lightly look like nervousness. Therefore you need to know how good your smile is. You should practice this in front of the mirror until you feel convenient with it and until it looks natural.

Four. Take the conversation somewhere. Pickup lines are no good and will take you nowhere. Your conversation should be intelligent and meaningful. That doesn’t mean that you begin discussing politics or football with her. You’re attempting to get to know the woman in the quickest, most direct way possible. Thus, get her talking about herself! Use this as a discovery of both who she is, and what you need to do to stir the conversation on.

Five. Listen to her. This is an significant part of the conversation. Just don’t keep talking on and on. You need to listen to what she says and concentrate on her. Look into her eyes.

6. Close. You have to ask for what you want. Don’t wait for her to do the thing for you. Far too many boys expect the woman to close for them; waiting for her to give you her number. Instead, you need to be the one to ask for it. Then, when you do, be direct, silent, certain, and don’t ask her – tell her. Say something like, "Here, write your home phone number down on this paper and I’ll call you sometime to proceed this conversation."

7. Leave! You always want to be the one to end the conversation. Don’t over-stay your welcome. Close, and make your exit.

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