Here’s what hookup is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, elementary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we hanker — ordinary interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hookup works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, watching each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hook-up life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual stress, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a phat amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to lovemaking — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel totally convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our lovemaking life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your fucking partner do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that getting off gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hook-up.

And we agree — it’s lovemaking like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having lovemaking at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the stress, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of closeness and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Ultimately, I understand why hookup is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my bod could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is tense and complicated, and being together so often that hook-up becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hook-up is truly like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hookup is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, plain, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we hanker — plain interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that lovemaking works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, watching each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your playmate can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your lovemaking life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual pressure, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a meaty amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to hook-up — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel entirely convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hook-up life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your fucking partner do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that getting off gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of lovemaking.

And we agree — it’s hookup like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having hookup at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the strain, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of proximity and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Eventually, I understand why lovemaking is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my figure could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is tense and complicated, and being together so often that lovemaking becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what lovemaking is truly like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hookup is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

My beau and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, elementary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we hanker — elementary interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hook-up works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, watching each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hook-up life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual pressure, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a phat amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to hookup — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel entirely comfy with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our lovemaking life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even however we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your fucking partner do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that onanism gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your fucking partner about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our bods and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hook-up.

And we agree — it’s lovemaking like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having lovemaking at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the pressure, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of closeness and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Ultimately, I understand why lovemaking is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my figure could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is stressfull and complicated, and being together so often that lovemaking becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hookup is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hook-up is truly like in a long-distance relationship

My beau and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, elementary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we hanker — ordinary interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hook-up works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, eyeing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hook-up life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual stress, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a giant amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to lovemaking — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel downright comfy with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hookup life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your playmate do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that onanism gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of lovemaking.

And we agree — it’s hook-up like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having lovemaking at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the stress, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of proximity and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Ultimately, I understand why hookup is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my figure could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is stressfull and complicated, and being together so often that lovemaking becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hookup is truly like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what lovemaking is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, elementary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we covet — plain interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hookup works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, observing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your playmate can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hook-up life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual strain, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a thick amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to hookup — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel fully convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hook-up life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your fucking partner do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that onanism gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our bods and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hookup.

And we agree — it’s hookup like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having hook-up at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the pressure, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of closeness and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Eventually, I understand why lovemaking is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my assets could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is strained and complicated, and being together so often that hook-up becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hookup is truly like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hookup is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, ordinary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we covet — ordinary interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hookup works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, observing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hookup life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual pressure, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a phat amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to hookup — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel entirely convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hookup life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your playmate do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that onanism gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our bods and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hook-up.

And we agree — it’s lovemaking like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having hook-up at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the pressure, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of proximity and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Eventually, I understand why lovemaking is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my bod could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is stressfull and complicated, and being together so often that hook-up becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what lovemaking is truly like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hookup is truly like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, plain, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we covet — elementary interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hook-up works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, watching each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hookup life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual stress, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a phat amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to lovemaking — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel totally convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our lovemaking life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your playmate do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that getting off gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hook-up.

And we agree — it’s hookup like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having hook-up at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the stress, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of intimity and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Ultimately, I understand why hookup is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my figure could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is stressfull and complicated, and being together so often that hook-up becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hookup is truly like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hookup is truly like in a long-distance relationship

My beau and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, plain, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we covet — plain interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hook-up works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, observing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your lovemaking life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual stress, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a giant amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to hookup — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel downright convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hookup life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even however we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your fucking partner do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that onanism gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of lovemaking.

And we agree — it’s lovemaking like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having hookup at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the stress, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of intimity and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Eventually, I understand why hook-up is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my figure could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is stressfull and complicated, and being together so often that hookup becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hookup is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what hook-up is truly like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, ordinary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we covet — ordinary interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hook-up works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, witnessing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your playmate can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your hook-up life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual strain, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a massive amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to hook-up — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel fully comfy with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hookup life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even tho’ we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your playmate do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that getting off gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hookup.

And we agree — it’s lovemaking like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having lovemaking at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the strain, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of proximity and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Eventually, I understand why lovemaking is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my figure could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is tense and complicated, and being together so often that hook-up becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

Here – s what hook-up is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

Here’s what lovemaking is indeed like in a long-distance relationship

My bf and I live a two hour plane rail apart, and we only see each other every two to three weeks. It’s my very first serious attempt at a long-distance relationship, and many aspects of it can be extraordinarily difficult. For most couples, elementary, daily activities like breakfast, laundry, and Netflix are givens. For us, those are the parts of a relationship we covet — plain interactions that create normalcy. We envy couples that have collective routines. That means that when we’re together, putting sheets on the bed is an event. Buying groceries can be the highlight of our day. And we’ve found that hook-up works similarly in our relationship.

After a few months in a typical relationship, witnessing each other naked becomes commonplace, and the urgency to be intimate fades over time. We’ve been together for more than a few months, but the distance inbetween our beds and our bods means that we haven’t had fairly that same practice. We’ve learned that while long-distance relationships are hard, having hundreds of miles inbetween you and your fucking partner can actually have a mind-blowing effect on your lovemaking life.

Here’s how we work through the sexual strain, frustration, and reunions:

Because we spend a thick amount of time texting, emailing, and talking on the phone, we’ve cover a lot of ground when it comes to lovemaking — including our preferences and our plans for next time. It helps that I feel fully convenient with him, but I think the chance to spell out what’s going to happen in our next sesh permits us to better use our imaginations and explore fresh territory in our own sexualities. And it’s not just dirty talk — we share articles and insights, we evaluate our practices together and weed out anything that isn’t working, and most importantly, we discuss how our hookup life affirms and supports the relationship we’re working to sustain, even however we can’t be geographically close at the moment. It means that we have a lot of time to ensure that we’re on the same page, and that we’re both getting what we need.

Let’s be real — we’ve gotten used to feelin’ ourselves…

…and sometimes, we share the practice. Of course, dry spells can be difficult whether or not you’re in a relationship, but it’s especially infuriating when you know you could be with the person you love — if only you could teleport to their bed. But at the same time, getting down over the phone or Skype gives us a different perspective. It means that by necessity, we’re being vocal about what’s turning us on, and if we’re including visuals, that gives us information about each other’s fantasies. Sometimes, witnessing your fucking partner do their thing themselves can be just as sexy as actually being together physically, and you can learn a lot about how to better pleasure each other in the future. Not to mention that getting off gives you the skill and vocabulary to better communicate with your playmate about your own needs. We’ve built an incredible foundation for discussing our figures and our sweet catches sight of.

When we end up in the same city, we have a lot of hookup.

And we agree — it’s hook-up like neither of us has ever had before. We’ve discussed the fact that we’ve both always been fairly sexual people, but nothing has come close to this. When we’re together, we usually end up having hookup at least three times per day. It’s not something we plan for, but I think there’s part of each of us that knows the clock is ticking. We also attempt fresh things — some things I’ve never considered doing in previous relationships. But with him, nothing he could ask for would scare me away, and vice versa. And that’s because of our communication — we’ve created a safe space to say “no” if we did want to. And everything comes together – all of the pressure, planning, and anticipation means we’re on fire, but it’s combined with an incredible amount of closeness and miracle. Missing each other for weeks at a time means that we just cannot get close enough. Ultimately, I understand why hook-up is revered as the thing that solidifies a union; if nothing else, I’m grateful that the distance inbetween us has elucidated that most profound closeness.

Of course, I’d love to think that we’ll keep up the frequency even when we do share a roof and a bed. But if I’m being fair, there’s a zero percent chance my assets could sustain the three-a-day groove we’ve got going now. So as much as I love our time together as it is presently, I am more than ready for the day when we no longer live in different states. Distance is stressfull and complicated, and being together so often that lovemaking becomes routine will honestly be an incredible ease.

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