Five Texting Secrets to Attract More Ladies – Get More Dates

Five Texting Secrets to Attract More Chicks & Get More Dates

Have you ever found yourself looking down at your phone at the name of a pretty woman you’ve just met, whether it was through friends, in a coffee shop or an online dating site, and wondering what you should text her?

Have you ever found yourself texting back and forward with a dame attempting to figure out when is the best time to ask her out on a date? Or even wondering if she’ll say “Yes” when you eventually do?

Or maybe you’ve gotten a woman’s phone number and you don’t know how long to wait to text her for the very first time. Is it one day? Three days? Longer?

Today I want to give you a few quick tips that will lightly train you:

  1. Why texting a female can be indeed effortless (if you know what to do)…
  2. How to text a woman to build her attraction, and…
  3. How to get her out on a date with you.

…and these work with any woman.

Let’s embark off with what I just said: “with any woman!” What do I mean by this? You’d be astonished, but it’s actually indeed significant to understand this point.

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1) Treat Any Woman Like She Is One of Many

Did you know the average man only goes out on 2-3 very first dates per year? Above average guys go out on 5-7 very first dates a year. That means most guys have only texted a fresh woman seven times in the past year, at best.

Because they’re texting so few women over the course of an entire year, most fellows put an extreme amount of importance on each woman–he has no sense of abundance. If you only have seven chances to get a lady out on a date, you’re most likely going to play it very cautiously, right?

If you’re texting with ten women at any given moment, how do you think you’ll act with each woman? Would you play it “safe”? Very likely not. You know that even if you screw things up with one woman, there are nine others left that still like you!

This is why it’s crucial to your success to text with “any woman” like you have ten more women who are dying to go out with you.

Women have more options than you would ever realize. In my practice, they are texting with at least 2-4 fresh dudes at any given moment until they lodge into a serious relationship.

Permit me to ask you this: do you think she remembers the man who’s texting very “gentleman-like” and “nice?” Or the fellow who’s taunting her, being aloof and non-needy? If you said the latter, you’re correct.

So, peak #1 is to treat “any woman” like she is one of many women you’re texting. Do not treat her like the special snowflake you might think she is! “Playing it safe” is a dead-end road that leads to lonely nights at home watching lame movies or playing movie games!

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Two) When’s the Best Time to Text a Chick?

I have a telling:

“When you’re with a woman, time is on your side. When you’re separated from her, time is your worst enemy.”

Memorize this and it will serve you well.

Here’s what I mean. If you’re talking away with a woman and things are going well, then that time you’re spending with her is only raising her level of attraction to you and strengthening your connection with her.

The minute you walk away from her, the attraction that you’ve built and the connection the both of you have made starts to leisurely decrease. The clock is ticking–every 2nd you wait, that attraction and connection keeps leisurely melting away.

(It works the same way with online dating. Once you’ve gotten her phone number and you’re about to stir from emailing to texting, the same premise is at work. Text her right away!)

Which leads me into Peak #Two: text her the same day you meet her or the very next day. Do not wait Two,Three or four days to text a woman. Pretty elementary.

You always want to be “fresh” in her memory and get her on a date before she forgets about you or someone else comes along (which can literally happen overnight)!

Trio) How to Craft the Flawless Text Opener

Good. Now that you understand when to very first text a woman after getting her phone number, I think it’s a good time to talk about my texting peak #Trio: how to craft the flawless text opener.

Your very first text to a woman should always be:

Why? Like I said above, at any given moment she is more than likely texting with a few fellows–you have some competition.

If that’s not bad enough, over the past few years, she has most likely texted with dozens of boring, uninteresting guys. How do I know that?

Because she’s given you her phone number! That means that if any of those guys had been interesting, unique and worthwhile… she’d very likely still be cheerfully dating them, and not providing her phone number out to you.

The easiest way to differentiate yourself from the “average man” she’s given her number to already… is by sending out a excellent very first text.

Here’s an Example:

Here are a few very first texts you can send (or feel free to use my ideas and switch them around for your own purposes):

“I heard you met a indeed amazing and killer dude at (insert where you met her).”

“So… Meet any awesome guys at (insert where you met her)?”

“Do you always pick-up guys at (insert where you met her)?”

“Hey you. It’s your internet hubby (insert your name).” (This is if you’ve met her online)

“I know you haven’t been able to stop thinking about me since we met so I figured I’d say hi.”

Those are the exact texts I use and they work superb! Have joy with them.

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Four) The Big Step that Most Guys Don’t Even Attempt

Now that you’ve established contact with a woman and you’re texting back and forward, it’s a good time to flirt and banter with her before you ask her out on a date.

(By the way, NEVER refer to meeting up with a lady as a date. ALWAYS just call it “drinks”).

Women live for flirting and banter. If you can successfully flirt, banter, and make a woman laugh, you’re in!

Not only that, you’ve undoubtedly distinguished yourself from all of the other dudes who are texting or have texted with her.

Boys just suck at this. You may find this hard to believe, but I’ve given workshops on flirting and bantering with as many as ten guys at once and it’s amazing at how little guys know about flirting, how to do it, and why it’s so significant. That means if you can do it right, you’ll be getting more dates than you can treat.

Flirting is an art and takes some time to learn but here are a few examples that you may be able to use:

Me: “What? We just met and you wanna come over already? You don’t waste any time, do you?”

Her: “I have to take a shower”

You: “Look at you attempting to get me to imagine you with no clothes on. Sneaky!”

You: “On a scale of nine to Ten. How excited are you that you met me?”

Her: “What do you do as a job?”

You: “Why? Attempting to determine if I’m hubby material?”

With flirting and banter there are literally a million different ways to do it. I just dreamed to give you a little taste of one potentially successful method.

The main purpose of texting with a woman that you’ve met is to re-establish any attraction and connection that you made in real life and to get her on a date!

This is where 99.9% of studs screw it up. I personally go through my students’ phones to analyze their text exchanges with women, and in every single example these guys have spent way too much time texting with a woman before they ask her out for a drink.

To the point that when they ultimately did ask her out, she said “No!”

Flirt a little and maintain that connection, but know when to pull the trigger on asking her out. How will you know when it’s time?

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Five) How Many Texts Should You Send Before Asking a Woman Out?

Always ask a woman out for drinks, coffee, or ice juices within the very first 15-20 texts back and forward. You don’t want to waste time with a woman who isn’t serious about meeting up.

Not only that, you don’t want the conversation to get so boring that she determines you’re not the right stud for her. Typically it’s hard for the conversation to get boring in the very first fifteen to twenty texts.

You will always want to ask her for a drink on a “high note” of the conversation. Women are very emotional beings. They act and sustain based on their emotions. They make all of their decisions from an emotional standpoint, not a logical one like guys.

If you ask a woman for drinks when the conversation is boring, her emotional state is low. Therefore she’ll automatically assume that your date will be boring and uneventful. I know it sounds absurd, but it’s the truth.

If, on the other mitt, you ask a woman out while the conversation is interesting and she’s excited, she’ll naturally assume that your date will be interesting and arousing, and she’ll almost certainly say “yes”.

There you have it. Five texting tips that you can embark using today that will 100% improve your odds and get the chick to go out on a date with you.

Have some joy with these secrets. Realize that you may lose some women along the way but practice makes flawless, and each time you lose one, that’s just one more woman who’s not wasting your time anymore, and making room for another one who’ll be amazingly attracted to you in no time.

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